Some people can’t stop caring what other people think of them. If this is the case, then poor self-worth is the root of the problem. The only way to improve this aspect of life is by gaining self-confidence. Because all relationships are, first of all, a relationship with ourselves.
Our relationships reflect our conscious and subconscious mind.
So the most important question to ask ourselves when something is not going the way we would like is: “What thoughts and beliefs are present in me that are making me a match to this unwanted situation?”
Psychic vampires are people that make you think thoughts that drain your energy. They suck life, energy, joy and you feel depleted.
However, it’s not the person itself that drains you, it’s your own thought, your own perception. You only give them power if you give importance to what they say.
Especially if you’re trying to shake the world, to share new ideas, to try something different you have to accept the fact that you’re not going to be liked by everybody.
You can’t please everyone. And if you try to please everyone, you end up pleasing no one… Least of all yourself.
So whatever choices you make, there will be someone ready to judge you. The more you put yourself out there the more opportunities there are to be criticized and judged.
But you have to see this positively. It makes you better and stronger.
You have to feel compassion for those people because they can’t be happy and fulfilled in their lives. All you can do is to hope that things get better for them.
If you care about what other people think, you’ll never have an authentic life. You have to let go of society expectations and accept the vulnerability to be deeply seen.
Because vulnerability is not weakness. Vulnerability is emotional risk, it fuels our daily lives, it is our most accurate measurement of courage. It is the birthplace of creativity, belonging, love.
So, try to let your positive energy win over the negative. If people are too negative then try to ignore them. If they are important to you limit the time you spend with them, especially if you are already depleted. Often some people are just incompatible, they don’t mean to be bad with each other.
Surround yourself with like-minded people and raise your vibrations to the point that you do not attract negative people.
When you still feel caught in an unwanted situation just say: “I go beyond fears and limitations of other people, I control my life.” And you say that from a place of freedom, peace and love, not frustration.